I'm going to take this blog entry and speak to you about my sister in law Amy Duncan. Yes, in my title I said My sister because she is truly more then my sister by marriage.
When I first met Amy, 14 years ago at a lunch for my now niece Carrie...there seemed to be an instant connection. For me anyways :) There was a connection with all of Jason's family, they instantly accepted me. However, Amy was only 6 years older then me and she had 2 young children and she instantly filled that "Older Sister" need I always longed for.
She was my maid of honor at our wedding if that tells you anything. My kids have always gravitated to Amy and Jeff, Kaykay and Blake. Like I said she is the closest to my age and Connor and Camryn always looked up to them. Camryn has even said Amy and I look like real sisters :) I've included some of my favorite pictures......
2012 when we came home for Christmas from Milwaukee. Our first year away.
My absolutely favorite! Camryn and Aunt Amy at Kayla's Senior Graduation Tea
No one ever wants to get "That Call", but we did in May 2014. I remember the day, because Jason and I were having the discussion that we need to move back home to Texas from Milwaukee. While we loved it, and I had an amazing job....Connor was struggling and just not happy and we new our family missed us back home. Jason's family didn't know it at the time, but I just returned back from Asia and Jason was already talking to his old boss about coming back.
That Afternoon, Jason's brother Jeff called. I could tell something was terribly wrong. Jeff proceeded to tell Jason that Amy had been having back problems for awhile went to several doctors and then they ran the MRI which confirmed her diagnosis which was a rare and aggressive Stage 4 form of Renal Cell Carcinoma which had spread to her bones, one of her kidneys with no cure. Immediate action was needed to have her kidney removed which has then been followed up with radiation and chemo which has been very hard for her body to say the least. We packed up and moved with a huge white truck and was home a month later just in time for her surgery. In fact we arrived the day of with a room full of over 30 friends and family to support her at Big Baylor in Dallas.
This diagnosis came at a time when their oldest daughter Kayla was about to embark on a dream of hers, a once in a life time experience to intern at her favorite place on earth...DISNEY!!! Blake was ending his junior year and about to start the busiest year of his life....SENIOR in high school. With College visits, Football Games and so much more. To put things in perspective, Kayla went to Disney.... and Blake who should be focusing on his Senior year was dedicated to his mothers side while Jeff worked full time and many days and weeks traveled.
I have always admired Jeff and Amy, you can see their commitment to raising their children in the eyes of the Lord and Kayla and Blake are the most Christ like kids, with true dedication to walking the life of Christ and not get bogged down by Society and what I'm sure many of their friends were experiencing while in College and their Senior Year.
Blake is off to college :(
In the last year, because of prayers and faith Amy has been allowed to travel to take Kayla to Disney, bring her home and take Blake to College. All of this already emotional to add the fact of being ill is more than I can bare to imagine. I've always felt since the day I met her that Amy was a very strong woman, she was very confident and giving heart. We've had weddings and births in this last year and through the Lords will Amy has been able to be there to see them all.
Here are some of my favorite pictures from the last year ;)
Family with Amy's Army shirts on that my Brother in Law Bobby Designed and ordered.
being goofy at Carrie and Craig's Wedding Reception. From left to right...Greg, Jason, Carol, Amy, Jeff, Julie, Me, Ann and Dale
The Aunts, Julie, Me and Amy presenting Carrie with her gift. When a Grand Daughter gets married the Aunts do a lunch or special gift just from us. :)
Happy Fourth of July!!
Carrie's Baby Shower. I LOVE this picture!!
Easter 2015..Left to Right...Carol, me, Jason and Amy
I'm so proud to be a Duncan Wife and Sister In Law...left to right...Greg, Carol (GO COWBOYS), Jason, Me, Amy and Jeff
Through the grace of God, Amy's Army and Prayers and her faith most of all we are here asking for your help.
Last month, Amy's employer Arms of Hope (a non profit organization dedicated to helping children in need, Teenagers lost, and single mothers that need help) had to officially take her off of medical leave. This in turn terminated much needed financial support and has put more of a burden on my Brother and Sister in Law. Do I need to remind you that they have 2 children in Private Christian Colleges? And Now insurance is giving them issues and won't approve much needed Chemo treatment! Just one treatment is well over $18,000!!! She will get some relief in 6mo when disability kicks in but that's such a long time and we can't put treatments on hold.
I could get on my Political Soap Box about insurance and our president but I'll leave that to the Oscars!!
I know not everyone has the funds to give, I get it times are hard. We are on one income ourselves, but if you can't give even a little please do and pass this along so more people can hear Amy's story and help lift her up in prayers.
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In his name,
Thank you for reading,
Kristi